BIGGEST MYSTERY OF LIFE.: When to be selfish and when to be selfless...??

A post very close to my heart.... Posting it one more time....
"All the creatures in this world are selfish and so are we, but
according to human nature we humans want to do something different and
unique, so why don't we start it from here, 'OUR OWN NATURE"..
And as we know, every living creature in this world is born selfish,
but, we must do selfless services for people who are in need,
considering the whole picture and not just our selves. It may be a
case that "the people who are in need", don't deserve a selfless
service. But then also we should help them, and serve them.. If we are
helping and caring for someone who doesn't deserve that, then only
we're not selfish, otherwise we are, 'selfish', because "a selfless
activity/service means acting without thinking a little thing about
the person..." a person who is completely innocent, offering himself
as a selfless person to the others, including his enemies and become a
ransom of the world. It is a perfect act of being selfless to even
those who don't deserve it...."
"ONLY THOSE WHO HAVE LEARNED THE POWER OF SELFLESS CONTRIBUTION,
EXPERIENCE LIFE'S DEEPEST JOY: 'TRUE FULFILLMENT'....."
-Anthony Robbins

Jo chala gaya mujhe chhodkar......

"Jo chala gya mujhe chhodkar, main kbhi na usko bhula saka..

Woh doorian, woh faasle. 

Main inko na mita saka..

Kya use v mujhse pyar tha,

Ya bs....?

Ye aisa ajib sawaal tha, 

Jo meri smjh me na aa ska..

Meri dil ka sukun tha, meri jindgi ka junoon tha..  

Woh meri bndgi tha, meri jindgi hai,

Usko yeh na bta ska..

Yehi sochta hu main raat bhar,

Gar tu mila kisi din raah par... 

To karunga tujhse shikayaten..
Tu mila to lab v na hila ska..
Jo chla gya mujhe chhodkar, main usko na kbhi bhula ska.."

I know what you were thinking when youy were reading this? I'm damn sure that while reading this someone was roaming in your mind... 'Someone, whom you considered everything in yor life.. Someone, for whom you boasted to bring the Moon and the Stars.. Someone, whom you considered your LIFE.." But what get in return was a Betrayal.. Don't get me wrong.. Betrayal doesn't mean that He/She left you purposelly..
Now, for a moment think from a different point..
Before that let me tell you something : So many people asked me this question, "why DEATH?" Why am I advocating death these days? This post is for you guys... Actually I didn't bother to answer them... a simple reply by me was that Death is more loyal than life... as usual they asked me for a proof..
Fellas, this is the proof.. Just think of death while reading the above hindi poem... if it fits in the poem then i'll consider myself WRONG.. But I'm damn sure that it'll never fit... "Has death ever betrayed someone? Has death ever left someone? Has death not sure?"
Do you have the answer? I know you have... And eventually I too have an answer.. Co-incidentally we both have the same answer... And the answer is  "NO" "NEVER"....

JUST TRYING TO SHOW THE BRIGHT FACE OF death... :)